Behind on Your House Payments: What You Can Do Before Foreclosure

First come late fees and calls or letters from your lender (or from the company that services your loan, which isn't always the bank that made it). If the gap continues, formal notices arrive. Those notices matter: they carry dates, and the dates count.

In Texas, the process can move faster than people expect. In many other states, foreclosure goes through a court and takes a long time. Here, in most cases, it doesn't go through a judge: if the default isn't resolved and the lender sends the notices the law requires, the house can be sold at auction within weeks of those notices, not years. That's why opening the mail and acting early is worth so much. Every notice carries exact dates; an attorney or a housing counselor can tell you what they mean for your situation.

Open every letter. I know it's scary. But every unopened envelope is a date you don't know about.

Find a HUD-approved housing counselor. HUD is the federal Department of Housing and Urban Development. It approves agencies that help owners who are behind, and foreclosure-prevention counseling is generally free. They help you organize your numbers, understand your letters and talk to your lender. You can find one with the counselor search tool at hud.gov using your ZIP code.

Call your lender early. The earlier you call, the more options there usually are. Ask what programs they have for owners facing hardship. Depending on your situation, the lender may offer:

• A repayment plan to catch up a little at a time.
• A temporary pause or reduction in payments while the emergency passes.
• A change to the loan terms so the payment becomes manageable.

None of these is automatic. The lender decides, asks for paperwork and can say no. But you can't ask if you don't call.

When you can see that even if you catch up, the payment can't be sustained. Selling in time is a decision, not a defeat.

Here's what many people don't know: if your house is worth more than you owe, that difference is yours. It's called equity. If you sell before foreclosure, in a regular sale, the title company pays the lender what's owed (including the missed payments and fees) and whatever is left goes to you. If you wait for the auction, you have much less control over the price and over what happens to that difference.

Selling takes time: getting the house ready, finding a buyer, their loan getting approved, closing. That's why the decision gets made early, not the week of the auction. Before you decide, get a real value for your home at veronicayeary.com/home-value and a payoff from your lender, and put the two numbers together. If you sell, factor in the costs of selling too.

If you owe more than the house is worth, it's a different conversation that runs through your lender. But it has options too.

When a home falls behind, letters and calls start arriving from people who "save" homes or buy them for cash. Some are legitimate; some aren't. Three signs to walk away:

• They ask for money up front to "stop" the foreclosure.
• They ask you to sign the deed to your house over to them, with a promise to give it back later.
• They tell you not to talk to your lender or anyone else.

Before you sign anything, show it to a HUD-approved housing counselor or an attorney. If it's a cash purchase offer, run the full math before saying yes. I walk through it in they offered to pay cash for your home.

Can they take my house over one missed payment?

One late payment doesn't mean immediate foreclosure, but it is the moment to call. The process has steps and notices. What happens in your case depends on your loan and on what you do from the start.

Can I sell my house if I'm already behind?

Generally, yes, as long as the house hasn't been sold at auction. The sale pays off what's owed, missed payments included. Your lender and the title company confirm the exact figures.

Will the HUD housing counselor charge me?

Foreclosure-prevention counseling from HUD-approved agencies is generally free. If someone charges you up front to "save" your home, be careful.

What happens to my credit?

Late payments and a foreclosure affect your credit. How much and for how long depends on your situation; a housing counselor or your lender can explain it.

I'm embarrassed to call my lender. What do I say?

The truth, calmly: what happened, since when, and whether it's temporary or permanent. They take these calls every day.

Falling behind isn't the end. What makes the difference is time: opening the mail, talking to a HUD-approved housing counselor, calling your lender early, and, if the house can't be carried anymore, deciding to sell while you still have choices. This is general information, not financial or legal advice: your lender, the counselor and an attorney confirm what applies to you.

Want to see what your home is worth and what you might keep if you sell in time?

You can start on your own at veronicayeary.com/home-value or with the seller guide. If you'd rather go through it together, calmly and without judgment, call or text me at 469-441-8890, or email veronica@veronicayeary.com. No commitment.

Veronica Yeary, Realtor® · CRS · ABR · SRS · CIPS · All City Real Estate DFW.

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