Can I Sell My House to My Son? What to Know First

Three things:

• The price stops being just a number. With a stranger, you negotiate. With your son, you may want to help and lower the price. That can be done, but it has consequences to look at first.
• Lenders look at it more carefully. When the sale is between family members, your son's lender usually wants to know from the start and will order an appraisal of the house.
• More people are part of the decision, even if they don't sign. Your other children, your spouse, your own plans for the coming years.

Start by knowing what your house is worth today, based on similar homes that sold nearby. Even if you decide to sell it for less, you need the real value as your starting point. You can request it at veronicayeary.com/home-value.

From there, there are generally three paths:

1. Sell it at its value. Your son gets a loan like any buyer, and you receive what's left after paying off your loan and the costs of selling. It's the easiest to explain to everyone.
2. Sell it for less than it's worth. The difference is treated as a gift from you. Lenders call it a gift of equity, and some accept it as part of your son's down payment. That gift may affect your taxes, which a CPA confirms.
3. Give it to him, or leave it to him later. Giving the house during your lifetime or planning for it to pass to your son after you're gone are different from a sale, with different paperwork and different consequences. An attorney explains those.

None of these is right for everyone. The right one depends on your finances, your plans and your family.

This is where the most problems start. Sometimes the idea is: "The house stays in my name and my son gives me the payment every month." Or: "I'll put the house in his name and he'll keep paying my loan."

Before doing anything like that, talk to your lender and an attorney. Many loans must be paid off when the house changes owners, and a handshake arrangement leaves you both exposed: you're still on a loan for a house that's no longer yours, or your son is paying for a house that isn't in his name.

In a normal sale, your loan is paid in full at closing out of the sale money, just as it would be with any buyer.

Unless he's paying cash, yes. And he should talk to a lender before the two of you agree on a price, to find out what he can buy and whether his loan program has special rules for a family sale. I explain why in talk to the lender before the sign goes up.

I can walk your son through that part step by step, but the lender is the one who decides on the loan.

Because it protects both of you. The title company checks that the house has no debts or recorded problems, handles the money, pays off your lender, and issues title insurance for your son. The attorney prepares or reviews the deed and tells you what each path means for you.

A deed downloaded from the internet and signed at the kitchen table can seem faster. It often costs more later.

Primary-home exemptions, like your homestead exemption or the over-65 exemption, belong to you, not to the house. When the house passes to your son, he has to apply for whatever he qualifies for with his county appraisal district, if he'll live there. Before you sell, ask how the house's tax bill will change so your son isn't surprised.

Even if they don't sign anything, they matter. Selling to one child for less than the house is worth can feel like an early inheritance for just one of them. Talking it through with everyone first, with the numbers on the table, prevents arguments that can last for years. If several family members want to buy together, I wrote about that in buying a home with family.

Can I sell my house to my son for one dollar?

Legally, many things are possible, but that's really a gift, not a sale, and it has tax and estate consequences. Ask a CPA and an attorney first.

Do I need an agent to sell my house to my son?

It isn't required. What you do need is the real value of the house, a clear contract, a title company and, in many cases, an attorney. I can help you with the value and the process, so nobody signs something they don't understand.

Can I keep living in the house after I sell it to him?

It can be arranged, but it has to be in writing, and your son's lender has to know, because it changes which kind of loan he can use. An attorney puts it on paper.

Is it better to sell it to him or leave it to him in my will?

It depends on your age, your health, your finances and your family, and it can make a big difference in taxes. That's a question for an estate attorney and a CPA, together.

What if I need long-term care or government help later?

Transferring the house to a child can affect certain assistance programs. If that's a possibility in the coming years, tell the attorney before you sign.

Selling your house to your son can be done, and done well, it can be a real gift to the family. Done well means: the real value first, both loans sorted out, a title company in the middle, an attorney and a CPA who review your situation, and your other children in the loop. That way the house stays in the family without leaving loose ends.

Want to start with your home's real value?

You can request it at veronicayeary.com/home-value. If you'd rather talk it through calmly, call or text me at 469-441-8890, or email veronica@veronicayeary.com. No commitment, nothing to sign.

Veronica Yeary, Realtor®, CRS · ABR · SRS · CIPS, All City Real Estate DFW. I explain every step before you sign anything.

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